Essentials in phases
Setting up the home

What to buy for a first apartment, and what can wait

An essentials list sorted by phase and by have, borrow, secondhand or buy, the secondhand checks for recalls and bed bugs, and the move-in cash added up.

Start here Essentials

At minimum, cut the essentials list down to what your household will use, decide where each first-night and first-week item comes from, check any used item before it comes inside, and add up the cash the move takes. Everything marked Go deeper can wait.

  1. Open the essentials list and delete what you already have or will not use (needs and phases).
  2. Mark each remaining first-night and first-week item have, borrow, secondhand or buy (have, borrow, secondhand or buy).
  3. For each secondhand item, search CPSC's recalls, and check a mattress or upholstered piece for bed bugs before it comes inside (secondhand checks).
  4. Enter the move-in costs and the first-week items' total in the move-in cash calculator, and write the total on the list (the move-in cash).

Minimum time: about an hour. Done when: the essentials list has every first-night and first-week item marked, and the move-in cash total is written on it.

1. Essentials by need and by phase Understand

Essentials, in this manual, are the things a household needs for daily life in its home: to sleep, wash, eat, clean, see, sit, store, fix and stay safe. The word is this manual's working term, not a standard list, and the list is a starting point. A household needs what its days need, so the first job is subtraction.

This manual sorts essentials two ways. The first is by need, the part of daily life the item serves. The categories match the essentials reference: sleep, bathroom, kitchen, cleaning, laundry, light, seating and surfaces, storage, tools, safety, and paperwork. Sorting by need shows gaps. A list with three kinds of pan and no shower curtain has a bathroom gap, whatever its length.

The second is by phase, the point in the first months when the household needs the item. The four phases are this manual's convention; no agency sets them. Convention

The four phases, with examples by need (this manual's convention)
PhaseThe testExamples
First nightNeeded to sleep, wash and get to the next morningBedding and a towel, toilet paper, hand soap, a phone charger, a flashlight, medicines (the first-night box in First night and safety)
First weekNeeded for ordinary days: eating, cleaning, working, getting dressedA pan, a pot, a knife and a board, dish soap, a trash can and bags, a shower curtain, a surface to eat and work at, a lamp where the room is dark, a laundry bag
First monthUseful once the household has a routine, and safer to choose after living there a few weeksStorage pieces, a second towel set, a fire extinguisher and a first-aid kit, cleaning tools beyond the basics, a basic tool kit
LaterCan wait until the household knows how it uses the spaceA couch or extra seating, rugs, a bookcase, a second table, decor

The phase is set by need, not by price. A fire extinguisher is not expensive and still sits in the first month, because the first-night checks in First night and safety come first. A couch can be cheap secondhand and still wait, because a household that has lived in a studio for three weeks knows where it would go and whether it fits, and a household on its first day does not. Preference Your own phases can differ: a household that works from home may move a desk and chair into the first week.

What came with the home

Before marking anything, take out what the home already provides. In Lease and move-in record, the condition sheet recorded the appliances, fixtures and any furniture that came with the home. A furnished unit may provide a bed, a table and a couch; a partly furnished one, a refrigerator and a stove. Those items belong to the landlord: they stay, they are not sold or given away, and a problem with one goes to the landlord as a repair request. The essentials list starts from setup: a furnished home's list has no furniture rows, and a kitchenette's has fewer kitchen rows.

2. Have, borrow, secondhand or buy

Every item that survives the first cut gets a source, the way it reaches the home. The list has four:

  • Have: you already own it, or it came with the home.
  • Borrow: someone lends it, and it goes back. Family and friends are the usual lenders; some towns also have tool libraries.
  • Secondhand: a used item, bought or given, from a person, a thrift store or a listing. It becomes yours.
  • Buy: a new item from a store.

This manual does not choose for you. It names what tends to decide the choice and shows the order. Four questions settle most items:

What decides the source of an item
QuestionLeans towardExample
How often will you use it?Daily: own it (have, secondhand or buy). Once or twice: borrow.A pan is daily; a drill for one shelf is once.
Does a used one carry a safety risk?Some items have federal rules on reuse, and some carry pests. Those get checks, or are not accepted used.A crib (section 3); a used mattress or couch (bed bugs).
What condition is the one on offer?A broken or incomplete item costs the repair, or comes back out.A table with a cracked leg; a lamp with a frayed cord.
How long will the household be here?A short stay favors borrowing and secondhand; a long one, items that will last the move out.A one-year lease; a first home bought to stay.

A fifth question applies in a shared home: who pays. The list's "Who pays" column takes shared, mine or theirs. An item for the whole household (a vacuum, a shower curtain, a trash can) is usually shared; an item one person keeps when they move out is usually theirs. Convention The household's own agreement settles it, and shared purchases go on the ledger in Sharing a home.

Money does not appear in that table on purpose. This manual does not say what to spend, which brands to buy, or whether to borrow; those are your decisions. It does show the arithmetic of what the choices add up to, in section 5.

3. Before a used item comes in: recalls, cribs and bed bugs

A used item can carry two problems a new one usually does not: a recall, which is a maker's or regulator's notice that a product is unsafe and should be fixed, returned or destroyed; and pests, chiefly bed bugs. The checks below happen before the item comes through the door, because EPA's bed bug advice is to check secondhand furniture before bringing it home.

The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) keeps a searchable list of recalls (CPSC, Recalls & Product Safety Warnings). Search by the product type and the brand, then by the model number if the item has a label, usually on the back, the underside or inside a drawer. The search can be filtered by hazard, including tip-over, suffocation, entrapment and lead. CPSC also runs SaferProducts.gov, where anyone can read and file reports of harm from a product (SaferProducts.gov). Those reports are submitted by the public and reviewed by CPSC staff; a report is not a CPSC finding, but several reports about one model are worth reading before you take it.

CPSC's guide for resellers says selling a recalled product is illegal, and that this covers giving one away for free (CPSC, Resellers Guide to Selling Safer Products). The guide is written for stores and resellers, and we turn it around: what a reseller may not pass on is what a household should not accept.

What not to accept used

Caution

CPSC's resellers guide says a crib made before June 28, 2011 should not be resold unless there is written proof it meets the current standard, that no drop-side crib can meet that standard even with new hardware, and that broken, wobbly or incomplete infant products (play yards, walkers, bath seats, toddler bed rails) should not be resold or repaired with other screws or parts. Do not accept any of these used. The guide also says each crib must carry a permanent date stamp; with no stamp there is no date to check, which makes the crib one to decline. CPSC's own summary is "When in doubt, throw it out."

Three more groups sit outside this manual and outside its essentials list: car seats, bicycle and other helmets, and medical devices. Each has its own rules and its own experts, and a household that needs one asks them.

Checking for bed bugs

Bed bugs are small, flat insects that feed on blood and hide in the seams and cracks of beds and furniture. The Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) says they travel on furniture, bedding, luggage, boxes and clothing, typically feed every 5 to 10 days, and can survive from several months to a year without feeding (EPA, Protecting Your Home from Bed Bugs). So a couch that has sat in a garage for a month is not thereby clear.

EPA says bites are a poor sign; look for physical signs instead (EPA, How to Find Bed Bugs):

  • Rusty or reddish stains, from crushed bugs
  • Dark spots, which are their excrement
  • Eggs and eggshells, about 1 mm, and pale yellow skins they shed
  • Live bugs

Where to look: the piping, seams and tags of a mattress; cracks in a bed frame or headboard; the seams of chairs and couches and between the cushions. EPA puts the size of a hiding place this way: "If a crack will hold a credit card, it could hide a bed bug." A flashlight and a card to run along the seams are the tools. EPA adds that carpet beetles are often mistaken for bed bugs; a local extension office or a pest professional can tell them apart from a clear photo or a sample. Ask the authority

EPA's prevention steps for the home: mattress and box-spring encasements (zippered covers that close around the whole mattress), less clutter, frequent vacuuming, and, in shared laundry rooms, carrying laundry in plastic bags; a dryer on high heat can kill bed bugs. In an apartment building, a bed bug problem is the landlord's to know about in writing (Cleaning safely).

The checks by kind of item (the "Buy used?" column of the essentials reference)
Kind of itemBefore it comes in
Hard goods with no cushions or fabric: dishes, pans, a wooden table, a lampFine used. A recall search for anything electrical or with a model number; look the cord over on a lamp.
Furniture and products that can tip, trap or pinch: dressers, bookcases, TV stands, folding chairsRecall search first, then a look at its condition. Anchoring is in Limited space.
Mattresses, couches, upholstered chairs, headboardsBed bug check, outside the home, then the recall search.
Cribs made before June 28, 2011, drop-side cribs, broken or incomplete infant productsDo not accept used (CPSC).
Car seats, helmets, medical devicesOutside this manual; ask the maker or the relevant expert.
Limits

A recall search and a bed bug check reduce the chance of bringing home a recalled or infested item. They do not prove an item is safe: a product can be unsafe without a recall, and bed bugs can hide where a check misses them. The essentials list is a starting list, not a statement of what a household must own, and this manual does not say what to spend, which brands to buy, or whether to borrow.

Go deeper

The full reference table, by room. The essentials reference lists about ninety items with their need, phase and the "Buy used?" check. Filter it by one room at a time (the bathroom, then the kitchen) and compare it with your list. Rows you skipped are not gaps unless your days need them.

A household that arrives with two of everything. When two people combine homes, or roommates each bring a kitchen, the list has the opposite problem: duplicates. Mark each duplicate "have," decide which one stays by condition and size, and send the other through the sort in Limited space. Who owns which of the two, and what happens to it if someone moves out, is a line for the household agreement.

4. Measuring before you buy, and bulbs by lumens

Two checks prevent most returns: whether the piece fits, and whether the light is bright enough.

Measure the spot and the route

A piece has to fit two places: where it will sit, and every door, hallway, stair and elevator between the street and that spot. Measure the spot and the route before you buy or accept anything large. Learn Space Planning's chapter on furniture you already own teaches the method, including the in-use space in front of a piece and the delivery route (Learn Space Planning, Furniture you have). We do not repeat it here. On the essentials list, write the measurements in the item's notes before you go shopping, so a listing's dimensions can be checked on the spot.

Light bulbs by lumens

Many first homes are dark in the evening: a studio may have one ceiling fixture, and a rental's fixtures may come with no bulbs in them. ENERGY STAR, run by EPA and DOE, says brightness is measured in lumens, not watts: find the lumens you need, then choose the bulb with the lowest wattage that gives them (ENERGY STAR, Learn About Brightness).

Lumens to replace an old incandescent bulb, from ENERGY STAR
Old incandescent bulbMinimum lumens for the replacement
40 W450
60 W800
75 W1,100
100 W1,600
150 W2,600

USFA adds one rule for the fixture: match the bulb's wattage to what the fixture is rated for, which is printed on a label inside it (USFA, Appliance and Electrical Fire Safety). Product-specific Color temperature, dimmers and where lamps go are in Learn Interior Lighting's chapter on bulbs and labels (Learn Interior Lighting, Bulbs and labels).

Go deeper

Buying used furniture with the fit checks. For a used couch or dresser from a listing, ask the seller for three measurements before you travel: width, depth and height. Compare them with the spot and the narrowest point of your route, using Learn Space Planning's method. Then plan the order of checks on the day: measurements first (it fits or it does not), condition next, then the bed bug check for anything upholstered, and the recall search last, because the model label is easiest to find with the piece in front of you.

5. The move-in cash and the first month's spending

The move-in cash is the money a move asks for before the first month's routine begins: the first month's rent, sometimes the last month's, the security deposit, application and other fees, utility deposits and setup fees, and the essentials bought in the first week. The move-in cash calculator adds what you enter and shows three things: the total, the total per person if the cost is shared equally, and how much of the total is the deposit, which is returnable under the lease's terms and your state's rules (Lease and move-in record). The amounts are yours, from the lease, the providers and the list; this manual gives no typical figures.

The essentials total comes from the "Estimated cost" column of the list. A blank cost there means "not answered yet," not zero, and the list marks any total over a blank as incomplete. Type 0 for something that costs nothing (you have it, or you are borrowing it). Convention An incomplete total is still useful: it says how much is known and how many items are not.

A deposit is part of the cash a move takes, but it is a different kind of money from rent: it is held, not spent, and whether and when it comes back depends on the lease, the home's condition at move-out, and state law. That is why the calculator shows it apart from the total.

Tracking the first month

The first month's spending is the best record a household has of what the home actually costs. The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau's spending tracker gives a method: track everything you earn and spend for a month, or for a week or two if a month is too much; keep receipts in an envelope and write down purchases without one; total each category each week and then for the month; and circle the items that repeat every month, such as rent and the phone bill (CFPB, Spending tracker). It is one of the free worksheets in the CFPB's Your Money, Your Goals toolkit, which also has a bill calendar used in Weekly routines (CFPB, Your Money, Your Goals toolkit). The phased plan dates the month's total for the 30-day review.

Limits

The calculator and the tracker show your own numbers added up. This manual does not say what a household should spend, what share of income rent should take, how to budget, or which items to put off; it gives no financial advice. For a budget, the CFPB's Your Money, Your Goals toolkit is free; it is written for people who help others with money, so a counselor or coach you already work with may use it too.

Go deeper

A national average, as description only. The Bureau of Labor Statistics measured housing at 33.4 percent of average annual spending per consumer unit in 2024 (BLS, Consumer Expenditures: 2024). That is an average across every kind of household in the US, renters and owners, and it describes what households spent, not what any one should. We use it only as context; BLS is expected to publish the 2025 figures in late 2026, and they will replace these.

A month of tracking, worked through. Dani (fictional) uses the CFPB tracker from the key day. The categories are theirs: rent, electricity, internet, groceries, laundry (coins), transit, phone, and "home setup" for the essentials list. Each Sunday they total the week by category; at the end of the month, the four weeks. They circle rent, electricity, internet and phone as monthly. "Home setup" shows what the first month's purchases came to, which is the number the 30-day review compares with the list's estimates. This manual does not judge any of the totals.

6. See it: Dani's list and Rosa's crib See it

Fictional example

Dani Ortiz rents an unfurnished 420 sq ft studio with a kitchenette, a shared laundry in the basement, and keys on 2026-11-01. Dani uses they/them. Their concerns: not sure what to buy first, money is tight for setup, not much space. The amounts and choices below are invented for the example; they are arithmetic, not prices to expect.

Known. Dani brought a twin mattress and frame, a desk chair, clothes, a laptop, two towels and a box of kitchen things from family. The lease packet lists rent of $1,150, a security deposit of $1,150 and an application fee of $45; the electricity provider charges no deposit, and internet installation is $50. No last month's rent is charged.

The cut. From the seeded list, Dani deletes the rows they have (towels, the bed frame, a chair) and the ones the kitchenette makes unnecessary, and marks the rest. Part of the result:

Part of Dani's essentials list (fictional)
ItemNeedPhaseSourceEstimated cost
Sheets, pillow, blanketSleepFirst nightBuy(blank)
Toilet paper, hand soapBathroomFirst nightBuy(blank)
Shower curtain and hooksBathroomFirst weekBuy(blank)
Pan, pot, knife, boardKitchenFirst weekHave (family box)0
Small table to eat and work atSeating and surfacesFirst weekSecondhand(blank)
Floor lampLightFirst weekBorrow0
Laundry bagLaundryFirst weekBuy(blank)
Couch or second chairSeating and surfacesLater(not decided)(blank)

The secondhand table. A wooden table from a neighbor has no cushions, so it needs no bed bug check; Dani searches CPSC's recalls by the maker's name on the underside, finds none, and checks that the legs are solid. They measured the spot by the window and the door before saying yes.

The move-in cash. $1,150 rent + $1,150 deposit + $45 fee + $0 electricity deposit + $50 internet installation = $2,395, of which $1,150 is the deposit. With five of the first-night and first-week costs still blank, the calculator's total is $2,395 plus an essentials total marked incomplete.

Open, and who settles it. Which essentials wait for the first paycheck. That is Dani's decision, made on the list once the blank costs are filled in; this manual does not make it, and the example does not settle it in advance.


Rosa Aguilar and her son Mateo, 4, are moving into an unfurnished one-bedroom on 2026-12-15. Her sister is giving her a dresser and a bookcase, and a neighbor offers a used crib-to-toddler bed.

Known. Rosa searches CPSC's recalls for the bed's brand and model and finds no recall. Reading the label and looking at the sides, she sees it is a drop-side crib converted to a toddler bed.

Decision. CPSC's resellers guide says no drop-side crib can meet the current standard, even with new hardware, and the absence of a recall does not change that. Rosa declines the bed. The dresser and the bookcase go through the recall search too, and then to Limited space, where tall pieces are anchored or put on the request list.

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7. Practice: the first-week list, marked and added up Practice

Minimum: the essentials list cut to what you will use, every first-night and first-week item marked with a source, the checks done for any used item you have already lined up, and the move-in cash total written on the list. Time: about an hour, plus the time a used item's checks take. Materials: the essentials list, the lease packet and the providers' amounts, the move-in cash calculator, a phone for the recall search, and for a used upholstered piece, a flashlight and a plastic card.

  1. Delete what you have or will not use. Read each seeded row and ask whether your days need it. Delete it, or mark it "have" with a cost of 0.
  2. Check the phases. Move any row whose phase does not fit your household, such as a desk into the first week if you work from home.
  3. Mark a source for every first-night and first-week row: have, borrow, secondhand or buy. In a shared home, mark who pays.
  4. Enter an estimated cost where you know one, 0 for have and borrow, and leave the rest blank rather than guessing.
  5. Run the checks for each secondhand item before it comes in: the recall search by brand and model, the bed bug check for anything upholstered, and the CPSC infant-product rules for anything a child sleeps in. Check the "Checks done" box.
  6. Add it up. Enter the lease and provider amounts and the list's total in the calculator, and write the calculator's total, and whether it is complete, in the notes of the list's first row.
Go deeper
  1. Mark the first-month rows the same way, and filter the essentials reference by room to find anything your days need that the seeded list left out.
  2. Start the CFPB spending tracker on the key day, with "home setup" as its own category.

8. Your home Your home

9. Check your work Check your work

Criteria

  • Is every row left on the list one your household will use, with the rows you already have marked "have" or deleted?
  • Does every first-night and first-week row have a source, and in a shared home, a "who pays"?
  • Is each cost either a number you know, 0 for have and borrow, or blank, with no guesses entered as facts?
  • For each secondhand item, was the recall search done, and for anything upholstered, the bed bug check, before it came inside?
  • Is any crib or infant product on the list checked against CPSC's date and drop-side rules?
  • Is the move-in cash total written on the list, with the deposit shown apart and the total marked complete or incomplete?

Worked example

Dani's list (fictional) has every first-night and first-week row marked, with costs for the rows they know and blanks for the rest. The neighbor's table had its recall search and a look at its legs before it came in. The move-in cash is $2,395 before essentials, $1,150 of it the deposit, with the essentials total marked incomplete. The list meets the criteria; what it does not yet show is which items wait for the first paycheck, which Dani decides when the blanks are filled.

Common mistakes

  • Keeping every seeded row. The list is a starting point; a row your days do not need is not a gap.
  • Entering 0 for an item whose cost you do not know. The total then looks complete when it is not; leave it blank.
  • Bringing a free couch inside to look it over. The bed bug check happens before it comes in.
  • Taking "no recall found" as "safe." A drop-side crib with no recall is still one CPSC says cannot meet the standard.
  • Counting the deposit as spent. It is held under the lease's terms and may come back; the calculator shows it apart for that reason.

What is still unresolved

This chapter cannot say which items your household should buy first, how much to spend, or whether a particular used item is safe; it gives the order, the checks and the arithmetic. Which items wait for a paycheck is your decision. Whether the deposit comes back is settled at move-out by the lease, the condition record from Lease and move-in record and your state's rules. Where each item lives is Limited space; the kitchen rows are checked against the meals you cook in A working kitchen, and the cleaning rows against the products in Cleaning safely.

10. Knowledge check and scenario

A neighbor offers a crib with no recall listed for its model, but one side slides down. Do you take it?
No. CPSC's resellers guide says no drop-side crib can meet the current crib standard, even with new hardware. A recall search answers one question; the drop-side rule answers another.
Why does a fire extinguisher sit in the first month rather than the first night, when it costs little?
Phases are set by need and order, not price. The first night is for the checks the home already allows (alarms, exits, shutoffs) and the first-night box; buying equipment comes after. The phases are this manual's convention, and a household can move an item.
Your list's total says "incomplete: 4 not answered." Is the total wrong?
No. A blank cost means not answered, not zero, so the total is the sum of what is known and says how many rows are missing. Fill in the four, or type 0 for any you have or are borrowing.
A 60-watt bulb lit your old room well. What do you look for on an LED box?
At least 800 lumens, ENERGY STAR's figure for replacing a 60-watt incandescent, and a wattage within the fixture's rating.
(Go deeper) BLS measured housing at 33.4 percent of average spending in 2024. Should your rent be about a third of what you spend?
The figure does not say that. It is an average across all US consumer units, owners and renters, describing what they spent; this manual uses it as context, not as a target, and gives no rule for what any household should spend on rent.
An upholstered armchair in good condition is sitting by the trash room in your building with a "free" sign on it. You need seating. What do you do?
EPA's advice is to check secondhand furniture for signs before bringing it home. Once the chair is inside, any bed bugs in it are inside too.
This follows EPA's and CPSC's checks in the right order. It lowers the chance of bringing in bed bugs or a recalled product without proving the chair is clear, so a chair with any doubtful sign stays out.
A sound choice if seating can wait or you are unsure about the chair. It costs a seat for now and nothing else.

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